Njira yofunikira yopambana lero ndi mawa ndiyo kukhululuka
ndi Steve Prokopchak
Ndinakulira makilomita atatu kunja kwa tauni yathu yaing’ono. Ndinkakonda malo amenewo. Ndinkatha kukwera njinga yanga mtunda wa makilomita ambiri m’misewu yakumidzi popanda magalimoto ambiri. Ndinkatha kukhala “pamtsinje” kwa maola ambiri m’nyengo yozizira, kukapha nsomba, kumanga msasa, kupanga ma rafts, kapena kusewera pamadzi otsetsereka m’nyengo yozizira. Maekala a nkhalango kuseri kwa nyumba yathu anandipatsa mpata wobwerezabwereza ndi wosalekeza wofufuza, kukwera mapiri, ndi misasa. Ndipotu, kwa zaka zingapo, ndinakhazikitsa chihema chokhazikika kotero kuti Loweruka ndi Lamlungu ndimathera kunkhalango m’malo mokhala m’nyumba mwanga. Malo abwino onsewa anali kuthaŵa kukalipiridwa, kutukwana, ndi chiwawa cha m’nyumba yathu.
Kodi mwana wamng'ono angazolowere bwanji moyo wabanja wotero? Ndinathamanga. Ndinathawira panjinga yanga, kumtsinje, kapena kunkhalango. Ndinathamangira ku famu ina yoyandikana nayo kumene ndinkakathandiza kukolola udzu, kudyetsa ziweto, kapena kugwira ntchito ina iliyonse imene akanandilola kuchita. Koma usiku wapakati pamlungu kapena Loweruka ndi Lamlungu ndinkalephera kuthawa. Kugona pabedi langa ndili maso kwa maola ambiri ndi zophimba zomwe zidakokedwa mwamphamvu pakhosi langa, ngakhale kutentha kwa chilimwe, chinali chitetezo chokha chomwe ndimadziwa pazomwe zikuchitika kunja kwa chipinda changa chogona.
Kukulira m’banja la nkhanza zapakhomo kumasokoneza ndi kusokoneza mbali zambiri za ubwana. Nyumbazi ndi zachisokonezo komanso zosayembekezereka. Amasoŵa chisungiko ndipo amasoŵetsa ana kukhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino. Amakhala nyumba zomwe anthu akungoyesera kuti apulumuke.
Kubwerezanso Kukhululuka ndi Kuyang'ana Kwina pa Ufulu
Njira imodzi yofunika kwambiri yokhalira wopambana lero ndi mtsogolo ndiyo kukhululuka. Kuyiwala zakale sikutheka mwaumunthu, ndipo zochitika zowawa kwambiri, mwayi woyiwala umakhala wochepa. Koma kukhululuka ndi chosankha chimene mungapange chomwe chimamasula inu ndi amene anakukhumudwitsani kuti mukhale ndi moyo wopambana lero ndi mtsogolo. Yesaya akutikumbutsa kuti tiiwale zakale ndipo tisamaganizire zakale kuti tiwone zomwe Mulungu ali nazo lero ndi mawa (Yesaya 43:18-19). Sizingatheke kuwona bwino mawa pomwe magalasi athu am'mbuyomu atsekedwa.
Kukhululukidwa kumakhudza moyo wathu wakale, wamakono, ndi wamtsogolo. Tiyeni tipende mavesi otsatirawa mogwirizana ndi mmene zimene zimachitikira m’mbuyomo zimakhudzira masiku ano komanso zimene zikubwera.
"Koma chinthu chimodzi ndimachita (panopa): Kuyiwala zomwe zili kumbuyo (m'mbuyomu) ndikukankhira kutsogolo (tsogolo), ndichita khama kuti ndikalandire mphoto imene Mulungu wandiitanira kumwamba mwa Khristu Yesu.”panopa/m'tsogolo( Afilipi 3:13-14 ).
“Pakuti ngati mukhululukira anthu pamene akuchimwirani,m'mbuyomu/pano), Atate wanu wakumwamba adzakhululukira inunso (panopa/m'tsogolo). Koma ngati simukhululukira anthu machimo awo.m'mbuyomu/pano), Atate wanu sadzakukhululukirani machimo anu” (panopa/m'tsogolo( Mateyu 6:14-15 ).
Sitingangoiwala zakale kapena kunamizira kuti sizinachitike. Komabe tisayerekeze kuyenda mu zowawa ndi kusakhululuka panopa.
Kukhululuka kuli ndi ubwino wa mankhwala; ndi lamulo lochokera kumwamba kuti timasulidwe. Koma kuopera kuti tingalakwitse, kukhululukidwa sikumakhazikika pa chosankha chathu; zachokera pa zimene Khristu wachita. Anasenza machimo athu pamene tidampachika Iye. Chikhululukiro ndi chimene Iye anatichitira ife: zakale, zamakono ndi m'tsogolo. Zaka zikwi ziwiri zapitazo, Iye anatikhululukira ife!
Mulungu amatipeza. Tinakhululukidwa ngakhale kuti tinayenera kufa chifukwa cha uchimo wathu. Palibe ndi mmodzi yemwe wa ife amene angapulumuke chiweruzo ngati tingalangidwe chifukwa cha zolakwa zathu. Tapyola malire mpaka kukhala muyaya popanda Iye. Kukhululuka kwenikweni kumasonyeza kuti Mulungu ndi ndani. Pamene Yesu anapachikidwa pa mtanda, anakhala chitsanzo cha Mulungu mu thupi la chikhululukiro.
Tikamamana kukhululuka munthu wina, timadzimanadi kutikhululukira. Kusakhululuka kumayambitsa kupsinjika maganizo, kusagona tulo, nkhawa, nkhawa, kuvutika maganizo, kuthamanga kwa magazi, kugaya chakudya, kugunda kwa mtima kosasinthasintha, ndi zina. Maulendo ambiri opita kwa dokotala masiku ano amakhala chifukwa cha kusweka mtima. Izi zikasiyidwa mosasamalidwa, pamapeto pake zimatha kuyambitsa kuwonongeka kwa thupi. Thupi lanyama likuyesera kutengera malingaliro olakwika obwera chifukwa cha kusakhululuka. Zowawa zakale m’kupita kwa nthaŵi zidzakhudza maganizo a munthu, chifuniro chake, ndi mmene akumvera, n’kumatisiya ndi maganizo a m’tsogolo mopanda chiyembekezo.
Kukhululuka Koona Kumabweretsa Ufulu
Chikhululukiro chenicheni chimatilola kukhala mwaufulu lero chifukwa sitigwiritsanso ntchito zinthu zakale. Kukhululuka si ntchito yachibadwa; ndi mchitidwe wa uzimu wa Mulungu m'miyoyo yathu. Ndiko kusiya kubwezera kapena kuganiza zobwezera. Kukhululukidwa kumachitika nthawi yomweyo komanso kwanthawi yayitali. Yesu anatikhululukira, ndipo ifenso tingathe kukhululukira ena. Koma kumasuka ku zowawa, imfa, mkwiyo, kapena chilango kungatengere nthaŵi.
Henri Nouwen anati: “[Kukhululuka] kumafuna kwa ine kuti ndidutse mbali yovulazidwayo ya mtima wanga imene imamva kuwawa ndi kulakwiridwa ndi imene imafuna kulamulira ndi kuika mikhalidwe ingapo pakati pa ine ndi munthu amene ndapemphedwa kumkhululukira.”
Kukhululuka ndiko pakadali pano kuchita pa mtengo umene unalipidwa mu kale, kuti tikhale ndi ufulu lero ndi athu tsogolo.
Kukhululuka ndikusiya ufulu wanga woti ndikupweteketseni chifukwa chondipweteka.
Chikhululukiro chenicheni ndikumasula wochimwayo pomuyika Yesu pamenepo. Timamasula munthu ameneyo kwa Yesu ndi zimene anachita pa mtanda chifukwa cha inu ndi ine. Yesu akupemphera,
“Atate wathu wa Kumwamba………………. mutikhululukire mangawa athu, monga ifenso takhululukira amangawa athu” (Mateyu 6:10, 12). Akulankhulanso za chikhululukiro ponena kuti, “Pakuti ngati mukhululukira ena akachimwira inu, Atate wanu wa Kumwamba adzakhululukira inunso: koma ngati simukhululukira ena zolakwa zawo, Atate wanu sadzakukhululukirani machimo anu” ( Mateyu 6:14-15 ).
Ali pa mtanda, Yesu anati, “Atate, akhululukireni iwo” ( Luka 23:34 ). Lemba la Akolose 3:13 limati: “Mukhululukireni monga Yehova anakukhululukirani.” Tikamanena kuti sitingakhululukire ndipo tikuyenda m’kusakhululuka, tikunena kuti mtengo umene Yesu analipira unali wosakwanira, sufika pamenepa, kapena ndinakhumudwa kwambiri kuti ndikhululukire. Tikhoza kukhala akaidi chifukwa cha zopweteka zathu komanso zowawidwa mtima. Wolemba mabuku wina dzina lake Louis Smedes ananena kuti: “Kukhululukira n’kumasula mkaidi n’kuzindikira kuti mkaidiyo ndi inuyo.
Tiyenera Kudzikhululukira Tokha
N’kutheka kuti munakhululukira ena koma zimakuvutani kudzikhululukira nokha. Mzimu wachipembedzo udzakupangitsani kuyesetsa kuti mukhululukidwe ndikukuuzani kuti simukuyenerera. Ngati mwavutika ndi izi, muyenera kulapa ndi kupempha Mulungu kuti akukhululukireni chifukwa chakutsekereza ufulu kwa inu nokha. Maganizo achipembedzo amanena kuti muyenera kuchita zambiri, koma Mulungu amanena kuti Mwana wake anachita zonse. Ngati Yesu angakukhululukireni ndi kukukhululukirani, ndinu yani kuti muleke kukhululuka?
Kodi Mulungu walankhula nanu kapena wayika chala chake pa gawo lina la moyo wanu kudzera munkhaniyi? Kodi muyenera kukhululukira ena cholakwa chanu? Marko 11:25 amati: “Pamene muimirira ndi kupemphera, ngati muli ndi kanthu pa mnzake, mukhululukire iye, kuti Atate wanu wa Kumwamba akukhululukireni inu machimo anu. Kodi muyenera kulandira chikhululukiro cha Ambuye kwa inu nokha? Kodi muyenera kusiya zimene munachita m’mbuyomu kuti mukhululukire?
Mulungu sakuyang'ana kukuponya miyala—limenelo ndi lingaliro la chilango cha Chipangano Chakale. Yesu anati kwa munthu wogwidwa m’chigololo, “Sindikutsutsa; pita nusiye moyo wako wauchimo” (Yohane 8:11). Afarisi anali kuyembekezera Yesu kuti aweruze mkazi ameneyu mwa kumponya miyala ndipo anadzikonzekeretsa mwa kusankha miyala yabwino kwambiri yoti aponyedwe—koma m’malo mwake, Yesu anamukhululukira.
Kucokera pamtanda Yesu samakhululukira kokha ndi kukupatsani mphamvu yakukhululukira, amachotsanso manyazi a uchimo. Kuyambira chaputala 1 cha Genesis, uchimo wakhala ukuchititsa manyazi anthu. Kuchokera pamtanda, kupyolera mwa Adamu wachiŵiri, uchimo ndi manyazi zachotsedwa. (Ŵelengani 15 Akorinto 45:48-XNUMX.)
Si tchimo lanu lokha kukhululukidwa, koma malinga ndi Ahebri 8:12 sichikukumbukiridwanso. 1 Yohane 1:8-10 akuvumbula kuti tilibe opanda uchimo, koma ndi chivomerezo Iye ali wokhulupirika ndi wolungama kuti atikhululukire ndi kutiyeretsa. Ngati tidzinenera kuti sitichimwa, timuyesa Iye wonama.
“Kukhululuka sikuchotsa zowawa zakale chikumbukiro si kukumbukira kuchotsedwa. M’malo mwake, kukhululuka zimene sitingaiwale kumapanga njira yatsopano yokumbukira. Timasintha kukumbukira zinthu zakale kukhala chiyembekezo cha tsogolo lathu.” (Louis B. Smedes)
Njira Zisanu ndi Ziwiri Zopezera Chikhululukiro kuchokera m'Mawu a Mulungu
Mutha kupeza ndikupereka chikhululukiro kudzera munjira zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe zafotokozedwa m'Malemba:
1. Sankhani kukhululuka
Kukhululukidwa kumayamba ndi chosankha chophweka chakuti, m’dzina la Yesu, tidzamvera Mulungu ndi kukhululukira amene atilakwira.
“Ndipo mukhalirane okoma wina ndi mnzake, a mtima wachifundo, okhululukirana wina ndi mnzake, monganso Mulungu mwa Khristu anakhululukira inu” ( Aefeso 4:32 ).
Yesu ananena momveka bwino pa Mateyu 18:35 kuti kusankha kukhululuka kumachokera mumtima. Tiyenera kukhululukira ndi mtima wonse, osabweza kapena kusunga chakukhosi.
Koma bwanji za malingaliro?
- Kukhululuka sikuyamba ndi malingaliro, koma ndi chisankho. Simufunikanso kudikira kuti mumve bwino musanasankhe kukhululuka. Mungasankhe kukhululuka kuchokera pansi pa mtima, ndipo Mulungu adzazindikira zimenezo. Tsimikizirani chisankho ichi. Mwa chikhulupiriro vomereza mokweza, “M’dzina la Yesu ndakhululukira _____”
- Khalani tcheru! Satana angayese kukubwezerani chakukhosi. (Wonani 1 Petro 5:8–10 .) Simufunikira kudziimba mlandu ponena za chiyeso, koma mufunikira kulimbana ndi malingaliro amenewo. Popeza mwasankha kale, muyenera kuima nji pa kukhululuka kale m’dzina la Yesu.
2. Lapani machimo anu kwa Mulungu
Kusakhululuka ndi kuchimwira Mulungu. Ndi kusamvera lamulo lake lokhululukira ena monganso Mulungu watikhululukira ( Aefeso 4:32 ). Komanso, Mulungu amafuna kuti anthu onse adziwe chikhululukiro; Iye anatumiza Mwana wake, Yesu, kuti adzafe kuti zimenezi zitheke. Kusakhululuka kungalepheretse anthu kukhululukidwa ndi Mulungu.
“Ngati tivomereza machimo athu, ali wokhulupirika ndi wolungama Iye, kuti atikhululukire machimo athu, ndi kutisambitsa kutichotsera chosalungama chilichonse” (1 Yohane 1:9 NKJV). Kuulula uku kukutanthauza kutchula machimo athu amodzi ndi amodzi.
“Wobisa machimo ake sadzapindula; koma wakuwavomereza, nawasiya adzalandira chifundo” (Miyambo 28:13).
Kodi tingatsimikize bwanji kuti takhululukidwa? Ziri mwa Mawu a Mulungu! Akunena momveka bwino; “Pakuti ngati mukhululukira anthu zolakwa zawo, Atate wanu wa Kumwamba adzakhululukira inunso” (Mateyu 6:14 NKJV).
Komabe nthawi zina mumakayikirabe kuti mwakhululukidwadi. Landirani chikhululukiro cha Mulungu, kuchilandira monga momwe mungalandirire mphatso imene wina wakupatsani. Kodi izi zingatheke bwanji? Tamverani zimene mtumwi Paulo ananena:
“Tsopano ndife akazembe m’malo mwa Kristu, monga ngati Mulungu ali kuchonderera mwa ife: tikupemphani m’malo mwa Khristu, yanjanitsidwani ndi Mulungu, pakuti Iye amene sanadziwa uchimo anampanga uchimo m’malo mwathu, kuti ife tikhale chilungamo cha Mulungu mwa Iye.” ( 2 Akorinto 5:20-21 ) N’chimodzimodzinso ndi Mulungu.
3. Pemphani chikhululuko kwa amene mudawachitira zoipa
Tili ndi udindo wobwezeretsa ubale ndi aliyense amene ali ndi chilichonse chotsutsana nafe. (Onani Mateyu 5:23–24 .) Landirani mlandu wa cholakwa chimene munachita ndipo pemphani kuti akukhululukireni. Ngati simukudziwa chimene munalakwa, pemphani Mulungu kuti akuwonetseni.
Ingopemphani chikhululuko. Osalozera mwatsatanetsatane zomwe zingapweteke kwambiri kuposa zabwino. Ngati mulibe chisoni chenicheni kapena kulapa popita kwa munthuyo, imani choyamba ndipo mwapemphero pemphani Mulungu kuti akusonyezeni mmene munapwetekera munthuyo ndi mmene anamvera. Lolani Mulungu kuti akupatseni kumvetsetsa kwatsopano ndi kukhudzika kwa munthuyo.
Ndi bwino kuyang’anitsitsa munthuyo pamene mwamuuza zimene munalakwitsa n’kumufunsa kuti, “Kodi mungandikhululukire?” Dikirani yankho. Ngati anena kuti, “Inde, ndikhululuka,” izi zidzabweretsa chikhululukiro kwa iwonso. (Mosasamala kanthu za yankho lawo, povomereza tchimo lanu ndi kupempha chikhululukiro, mwakhala omvera. Tsopano mukhoza kusiya mkhalidwewo m’manja mwa Mulungu.)
4. Pemphani Mulungu kuti adalitse munthu amene wakukhumudwitsani.
“Dalitsani iwo akutemberera inu, ndi kupempherera iwo amene amakuchitirani mwano” (Luka 6:28 NKJV).
Mukamachita zimenezi, tsatirani chitsanzo cha Yesu popempha Mulungu kuti am’dalitse mwa kumukhululukira.
5. Chitani zabwino kwa munthu amene wakukhumudwitsani. Adalitseni iwo.
“Chitirani zabwino iwo akuda inu” (Luka 6:27 NKJV).
“Musagonje kwa choipa, koma ndi chabwino gonjetsani choipa” ( Aroma 12:21 , NW).
6. Landirani munthuyo mmene iye alili, ngakhale atakhala wolakwa.
Osateteza zomwe akuchita, koma teteza iwo. Chitirani munthuyo ulemu, ulemu, chikondi, ndi kukoma mtima mosasamala kanthu.
“Chifukwa chake mulandirane wina ndi mzake, monganso Khristu anatilandira ife, ku ulemerero wa Mulungu” (Aroma 15:7 NKJV).
7. Yang'anani munthuyo ndi maso achikhulupiriro.
Musamangoganizira za kufooka, tchimo, kapena kukwiya. M’malo mwake, ganizirani kwambiri za kuona munthuyo mmene Mulungu amafunira. Khulupirirani kuti Mulungu adzayankha mapemphero anu kwa munthu ameneyo (onani 1 Yohane 5:14–15). Tsatirani chitsanzo cha Abrahamu, ndipo mwa chikhulupiriro onani zinthu zomwe sizili momwe zimawonekera (onani Aroma 4:16–21). Yambani kuganiza ndi kulankhula zabwino za munthuyo (onani 1 Akorinto 13:7). Chikondi “chimakhulupirira zinthu zonse, chimayembekezera zinthu zonse, chimapirira zinthu zonse.”
Kumbukirani kuti kukhululuka sikungobwera mwachibadwa. Tiyenera kusiya kunyada, kuzindikira kuti ifenso timafunika kukhululukidwa, kenako n’kumasula munthu amene tikuona kuti watilakwira. Mosasamala kanthu za chimene chinachitidwa, zindikirani kuti kukhululuka kodzala ndi chikhulupiriro kudzakumasulani ku zopweteka, kuipidwa kumene kungakhalepo ndi chivulazo chamaganizo, chauzimu, ndi chakuthupi chimene kusakhululuka kungabweretse.
Mudzapeza machiritso anu momwe mumakhululukira.
Tithokoze Mulungu chifukwa cha chikondi ndi chikhululukiro cha Mwana wake, Yesu Khristu, wokonda miyoyo yathu. Iye anatikhululukira choyamba kuti ifenso tizikhululukira ena.
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